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Benefits of Sadaqah

Some of the greatest benefits of Sadaqah are as under:

i) The Best Investment with Allah SWT

The Almighty Lord says in the Holy Quran:

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“Who is it that would loan Allah a goodly loan so He may multiply it for him many times over? And it is Allah who withholds and grants abundance, and to Him you will be returned.” [Quran, 2: 245]

In the above mentioned Ayah, the Most Gracious regards Sadaqah (Zakah here) as being stored as giving loan to Him, Who will surely multiply the effect of this credit given to Him by many folds.

ii) Resulting In Huge Rewards

Allah SWT says in His Sacred Book:

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“The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is like a seed [of grain] which grows seven spikes; in each spike is a hundred grains. And Allah multiplies [His reward] for whom He wills. And Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.” [Quran, 2: 261]

The reward for spending in the way of the Almighty Lord is so immense that it has been compared to a bowing a seed, which ultimately results in getting hundreds of grains after sometime. It means that one gets unimaginable number of rewards and blessings from the Creator of the universe for one act of Sadaqah.

iii) Attaining Shade On The Day of Resurrection

The Prophet ﷺ said:

“The believer’s shade on the Day of Resurrection will be his charity.”(Tirmidhi)

This Hadith indicates that the Judgment Day which will be a great test of everyone as the Sun on that day will be right above the heads; only a charitable act of an individual will soothe a believer with its shadow protecting it from blazing heat.

iv) Protection from Tragedies

The Messenger ﷺ of God has been narrated to have said:

“Give charity without delay, for it stands in the way of calamity.” (Tirmidhi)

Therefore, a continuous assistance given to the needy results in prevention of any unforeseeable misfortune or suffering that might occur in one`s life.

v) Never-Ending Rewards From Allah SWT

Hazrat Muhammad ﷺ, while talking about the high benefits of giving aid to the poor said:

“When a person dies, his works end except for three: ongoing charity, knowledge that is benefited from, and a righteous child who prays for him.” (Muslim)

The above mentioned Hadith clearly indicates that continuous helping deprived people with financial and other support is such a virtuous deed that a person keeps on reaping benefits from it even after its death.

In short, the act of Sadaqah is not restricted to Zakah only, for that is only a part of it. Sadaqah is actually an ongoing process that includes every action of goodness and uprightness, which ultimately results in attaining the Pleasure of Allah SWT and earning great rewards and blessings from Him.

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HOW TO CHOOSE A FRIEND

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“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” — Jim Rohn

How do you choose a friend?

A reader asked me for tips on how they can choose the right person for a friend.

I thought it was a great question, given how much choosing to have the right people in our lives can make us or break us.

Opposites Attract, But Similarities Bind

First, it’s important to know that opposites attract but similarities bind. That’s why it’s so important to know your own values, since values are the common bond.

Second, it’s important that you stand strong from the inside out. In other words, address any personal issues like low self-esteem or inner critic issues. Otherwise, you’ll have a tendency to choose the wrong people, attract the wrong people, or fall prey to people that prey on weakness.

Those aren’t your true friends.

The best way I heard it put is that a friend is someone you can hang out with, have fun with, and depend on.

With that in mind, here are five effective strategies for choosing better friends.

1. Be your own best friend.

Wherever you go, there you are. You will always bring you with you, wherever you go. Wouldn’t it be great if any situation, you had at least one person you could count on?

That might sound trivial, but there are a lot of people who don’t even have that.

They are their own worst enemy.

If you choose to be your own best friend, to the end, then right off the bat, you’ll have a better mindset. You’ll be your own coach, not your own worst critic. You’ll practice self-compassion, which will inevitably show up as compassion for others (which helps make friends.) You’ll also avoid co-dependent relationships, because you’ll have a firm foundation and a shoulder to lean on. (Here is a great cheat sheet on codependency for dummies.)

If you choose to be your own best friend, you’ll give off much better vibes, and attract the right people, versus somebody who hates themselves.

After all, if you don’t want to be friends with you, why should anybody else.

Everybody’s worth it, everybody deservers it, everybody needs it, so make this choice, and choose it.

2. Be the friend you want to have.

To have good friends, you need to be a good friend. It’s give and take. When you drive from the right place, the right heart, the right intention, the right things happen over time.

It’s over time that counts.

People will take advantage of you, bad things will happen, and things won’t work out. That happens. But it’s the long haul that matters. Don’t let how other people treat you become an excuse for how you treat other people. Don’t let yourself down. Take the high road here.

It’s like panning for gold.

You’ll sift the gold from the sand over time.

Let the sand go.

3. Surround yourself with amazing people.

It’s easy to surround yourself with the wrong crowd. If you’re a negative person, like attracts like, so it will be very easy to find people who will agree with you about how the world sucks, and how other people are to blame, and how the world is against you.

Don’t buy it.

Seek the high ground. And you can find it by finding amazing people. Amazing people help you see what’s possible in life. They own their future and they shape their destiny. They march to the beat of their own drum. They push the envelope. They challenge themselves. They take on big challenges. They use their gifts, talents, and special abilities to blaze trails, move mountains, and change the world.

Or at least their world.

And they inspire you to do the same.

Add more amazing people to your life, so that you have a constant barrage of brilliance that can’t help but lift you to new heights.

Amazing people are all around you, if you know how to look.

4. Surround yourself with people who lift you higher.

Your best friends in life are the ones who make you a better person. They get you, and they know what you’re capable of. They may even know you better than you know yourself.

They bring out your best by either by supporting you in little ways that add up over time, or by calling you out on your bad behaviors, or by helping you see what your best can be.

Some people lift us.

Others drain us.

Spend more time with the catalysts in your life, and less time with the drains.

5. Have 3 essential people in your life.

Have a mentor, a mentee, and a sparring partner at your level. If you want to be great, these three special friends can help you get more out of life.

  1. The mentor. A mentor will help you see what’s possible and help you find the short-cuts, or at least avoid the dead ends and pitfalls as much as possible. They can also provide more personalized feedback and more specific guidance that suits your situation. In life, it can be life Chutes and Ladders, and the right mentors will lift you faster than any other approach.
  2. The mentee. A mentee, somebody that you mentor, will help keep you inspired and will remind you of how far you’ve come. It’s also your chance to really help somebody get a better start in life, and that’s priceless. If you don’t think you can truly mentor someone, you have to remember that it’s all relative. What might seem like a mighty oak to one person, is just sapling to another and vice versa.
  3. The sparring partner. You need somebody that’s at your level that can relate to your situations and challenges. You can push each other. You can bounce ideas off each other. You compliment each others skills.

Side note – I have several mentors, I mentor several people, and I have a close connection of sparring partners. This helps me continuously learn and improve over time, while giving back and helping others change their game. It’s the most important thing I do to go beyond just existing, and it’s been one of my best life strategies.

Checkpoint: Do you have the right friends?

Here are some questions you can ask yourself to help you check whether you have the right friends:

  1. Are you surrounding yourself with amazing people?
  2. Do your friends bring out your best? (does your wolf pack help you shine?)
  3. Do your friends help round out your skills and capabilities? (does your wolf pack help you thrive?)
  4. Are your friends there for you when you need them? (a friend in need is a friend indeed)
  5. Is there give and take? (not one way)
  6. Do you feel good about yourself with your friends?
  7. Do you feel good about your friends?
  8. Do your friends support your aspirations? (does your wolf pack grow you?)

In the words of Jim Rohn:

“Don’t join an easy crowd. Go where the expectations and the demands to perform and achieve are high.”

Keep these wise words of wisdom in mind:

“There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will.”

And one of the best articles I’ve read on the impact of the right friends in your life is Buford Taylor’s, You are the Average of Your Five Closest Friends. Here’s the punch line:

“If the main topic of conversation you have with your friends is not how you can better yourself, you need to get new friends.”


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ERA OF SLAYQUEENS👑😁

There is a new breed of women in town commonly known as slay queens on social media.

In layman’s language, a slay queen is a woman who wants to choke everyone else with how beautiful they feel they are and how they do their “cool stuff”, not forgetting their blond opinions!

It is that girl who doesn’t do githeri or fries, does sleepovers only in leafy addresses like Nairobi’s Kile, Runda and Kitsuru. Dandora na Githurai ni wewe!

Remember that girl who told you that a gentleman must match his shoes and belt, yet her face and neck don’t match? That’s a slay queen.

The first time you meet and listen to them, as one wag pointed out on social media, they tweng harder than Dr Kaluyu, that nondescript presidential candidatMinutes into the conversation, their true colours always manifest, with them resorting to sheng-laden English, as they punctuate their sentences with countless “Oh my God” and “haki woiyee”.

On Twitter, Jay Guzman says that a slay queen’s starter pack includes a passport, thick thighs, an iPhone and a strong liver.

Make up, looking good always

A slay queen must have her make up intact all the time. She has to keep up with all make up and accessories trends.

That includes keeping tabs on all glam pages on Facebook and tutorials on YouTube.

The girl you see in town with flowers on her head, a “band” on her neck is definitely a slay queen.

Take a look too at her eyebrows. Currently, they are slaying on a new trend called wavy eyebrows. Social media trolls say that the queens put flowers on their heads to pay respect to their dead brains. How true that is, we at Crazy Monday don’t know!

With her makeup, a slay queen will look like any local or international celeb or model she admires.

If you are “unlucky” enough to meet one of these queens without her make up, you will be forgiven for thinking that Lwanda Magere, the legend of the Luo has resurrected!

But it is unlikely that you will ever catch a slay queen in her Lwanda Magere look, not when these days they have “primer” which makes their makeup wear better and last longer!

A slay queen would rather sleep hungry but don the latest lace weave or wig and have perfect gel polish on her “sexy” nails.

Slay queens sleep in their heels. No catching them in low life kind of shoes like flats!

She will strut to a polling station deep in Mathare North with her six inches and in one of her feel good days, she will daringly go out wearing stilettos of different colours to pull that blue and red heels stunt pulled by Akothee and international celebs!

Photos and social media presence

Social media and slay queen are “chanda na pete” literally. In any case, where would the queen go with her intact make up if she didn’t have her Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat account?

As part of her calling, a slay queen has the obligation of updating us mere mortals about where she is having her breakfast, lunch or dinner, where and when her invisible bae and her are travelling to, the major happenings in her life like when her bedroom light blows out or one of her hair strands falls out!

These queens take photos and post them from when they wake up to when they retire on their king size beds.

The photos are heavily edited with filters to create perfect and flawless looks until you meet her face to face and realise she has this big scar on her neck because she start slaying around hot water at age two!

A slay queen’s life revolves around videos on WhatsApp status and IG storied on Instagram.

How they create, maintain facade of opulence

The broke slay queens, who are the majority by the way, only take these photos at their rich friends’ place and at big malls only. You will see them with safety belts on “driving their cars” on Parking mode.

They create a false impression on social media that they balling big time yet most of them are jobless.

Oooh, and doomed you are to think a slay queen takes kawaida photos!

A slay queen has to pout her mouth or twist it or just stick out her tongue when taking photos. No slay queen has straight legs, why be that kawaida jameni?

Their legs have to be twisted in photos, you would thing she is suffering from rickets or polio. They call it swag. The slay queens’ constitution, photo session, also says that she must try her level best to show both her glam face and “big sexy” behind in all the photos.

Additionally, she has to go to all length to get the perfect shot for the day, be it to climb a rooftop, hug a transformer or hop into the next airport-bound bus to take a photo at the international departure terminal and hop back to their slum house immediately after! It is an hustle, my friend!

Their Language

Catch a slay queen dead talking like us mere mortals! You know she is a slay queen if you can’t keep tab with how many wharrevas and ooh my gosh she drop in under five minutes!

We shall never get enough of how they “penda you bae” and heart their bffs.

Their newest word, issa, is a slaying contraction of it is, so do not be baffled when you see them updating that issa Friday, issa parry time and such issa things.

In any case, it is good they use the language that is swaggerific and easy.

Asked to use proper grammar, nearly three quarters of them cannot differentiate “loose” and “lose”, “leave” and “live”, “you’re” and “your” and such simple grammar lines.

Desperate to show the world on social media that they too read and that are smart, they will take a pic of a book cover and caption it with, “good riddance”!

Hashtags are also part of their language. A slay queen is nothing if she can’t tell a short story using hashtags. #MyCrib, #TravelManenos and others hashtags have to be dragged to every post.

Once in a while she will also feel obligated to remind all of us dimwits that she is a #SlayQueen and she is always #Slayinghard!

Party animal

You cannot qualify as a slay queen if you do not party like an animal.

A serious slay queen has at least puked at all the washrooms of the clubs in town, and taken photos while at it! They smoke shisha like their life depends on it.

A slay queen knows how most if not all wines and whiskeys brands taste if not pretending to!

She knowing where it is happening this Friday and has to be there by hook or crook, ready to take the best IG photo from Kiza Lounge or B-Club!

Blond moment

Being a bimbo and a slay queen go hand in hand. A slay queen must have her blonde moments, it is just a part of who she is. It is one quality they share with socialites.

Take her to your village and after seeing smoke from your grandmother’s house, she will strike a smile and ask, “Dave, kwani your shosh does shisha too?”

A slay queen will ask you what madondo is and before you answer, she will say “let me google it”.

Ask her what she would do if she discovered she has fallopian tubes and watch her get depressed shortly after because blond her thinks fallopian tubes are such a bad thing to have.

Start a conversation on global warming, and with a straight face, a slay queen will tell you that she purchased her global warming at Nakumatt for 15 gees!

One left social media users in stitches when she posted a picture of herself supposedly in Ethiopia and captioned it with, “Wow, Addis Ababa is such an awesome country. Lit!”

With the above characteristics, it is no wonder that Sollo Raitz, a friend of this writer, says that last week when a slay queen from his neighbourhood died, her family had difficulties finding the perfect photo to use on her obituary.

Sollo laments, “Kuna slay queen amekufa hapa mtaani, alafu her family has been searching for a picture to use on her obituary wamekosa…. All the pics alipigwa anavuta shisha, bending legs and stretching mouth. So imebidi wametumia picha ya brathake na wakaandika ni sistake amededi!” Intriguing!